Warm Attitude Adjustment.

Sometimes, you just want to blabber about random things, at 12:39 a.m.
Instead of boring the hell out of someone, I'm just going to do it on here.

One. Manners. People often forget them, and they are important. Say; please, thank you, 'I would appreciate it if'.. excuse me, good job... hold a door open for a stranger, let pedestrian's cross the street when it's raining or freezing out. Being POLITE; it really DOES go a long way..

Two. A threat; a statement in which you tell someone that you will punish or harm them, especially if they do not do what you want. Which = people being bitter; To be perpetually pissed off... Expression of being in a bad mood over a relatively minor incident, often resulting after a series threats over the course of a certain period of time.

Three. If you have ever had a job, at some point or another, you'll clearly understand number two.

Four. Are threats effective? No. Please refer back to number one, and see how much farther that will get you.

Five. Courtesy. Also a good one. This is a simple action or gesture, that goes a long way. A nice way to express.. 'I was thinking about you' .... 'you're appreciated'....

Six. Here's a big one- Try to put yourself in someone else's shoes. AND REALLY UNDERSTAND THEM. If you take the time to do that, you'll probably make much more 'courteous' and educated decisions.

Seven. A smile is a great way to open up any type of interaction

Eight. Be understanding and patient. One thing that seems to be thrown out of the window first when we get in a rush is our understanding and patience. If we just slowed ourselves down for a moment, and took the time to be understanding of the people that we are interacting with, we would automatically win. If you are being patient and understanding you are not going to put the other person on the defense, and they will be more open to helping you with what ever problem that you may have.

Nine. When someone does something good, or over the top, be courteous and acknowledge that! Please see number one.

Ten. Be the bigger person.

Eleven. Anger can get the best of us, and we're all human. Sometimes, you might fail. It's okay, try again next time.

Twelve. "I'm sorry"... means everything, when you mean it.

:)

Think about it...

Me- The Libra

I have to agree, most of this is pretty accurate.

"THE LIBRA"

The Libra person is diplomatic, sees both sides, open-minded, just, urbane, fair, partnership oriented, refined, balanced, graceful, debative, egalitarian and sociable. They can sometimes also rationalize, be easily deterred, indecisive and lazy. Typically young Libras dream of finding the person of their dreams. As they get older and more experienced in seeking that person, their experiences shape their futures in the most extraordinary manner. Finding and losing love make a big difference to Libra, regardless of their outward happiness.
Libra has the ability to shut off from the world, and more occurs in those times than is outwardly obvious to their closest companions. In romance, Libra can be hard to understand, yet in business they can be creative and express diverse sides of their personality. Libra can also have the bad habit of saying ‘yes’ when they should say ‘no’.
Many Libras end up with the wrong person or job, and would have faired better if they had remained alone. But for the Libra who finds their perfect someone, you will find them living in distant, beautiful places, finding life to be the paradise they thought it could be. Libra needs to be careful to hold out for their dream, and not just take what it offered.

7months :)

It's been a long time since I've updated, which is not what I want to let happen too frequently with this site :)

I've been getting a lot of questions so I think it's time I do a little about me update.

I had another ultra sound today. Baby is 28 weeks, 1 day.

He was measuring 2lbs 15 oz, which the girl said is "slightly above average" for weight right now, partly due to his daddy spoiling me with too many home-baked chocolate chip cookies :)

I am blessed to say that everything looked very good, and he appears very healthy.

As the ultra sound tech tried to catch a glympse of his little face, we noticed his hand moving.. so she held it there for a few minutes and we watched him open his mouth and stick his fingers in...

I joked with her that he was picking his nose and eating it already :)

I recently had my baby shower in FL, I had a special guest travel with me :)

Which I am still trying to figure out how to thank her for everything she does for me.. having such a friend like her is a blessing..

(along with my other good friends that I love)

Baby had a good time at the shower, loved hearing everyone's voices, and can't wait to show off his new stuff for all of you to see !

He says he misses his Grandma and Grandpa though ;-)

As far as how I feel...

mostly ANXIOUS, which grows stronger everyday.

He moves alllll the time now and I just want to see him and kiss him :)

Work is starting to get to me at times, being a nurse where I work is very physically demanding for anyone, let alone a round pregnant woman! haha..

I am on my feet ALL night long, and some nights probably sit down for maybe 20 minutes. Makes me nervous and uneasy at times because I know they say you should try to avoid work like this, but I have to do what I have to do.

For all of you reading this that have been through this before, I'm sure this is jogging your memory..

sleeping is becoming more difficult, yet I want more of it :)

I have to sleep on my side, with a pillow sort of propped under my belly, just to be comfortable..

I'm getting random back pain and side pain..

and my fingers or feet will swell sometimes depending on what I eat or how long I've been standing.

OH, and the pushing on my RIBS! eeeek!

Jason is awesome and I don't know how I got so lucky to have him :)

He is so patient with me and my prego hormonal moments.. haha..

my random "I want a warm cookie" cravings..

my.. I'm too tired to fold laundry right now..

my outburst recently when a driver behind me started beeping for no reason

and I got out of the car freaking outlike I was going to vaporize her with my eyes. lol

Married life is suiting us quite well... we learn about eachother every day still and love every minute of it :)

I'm proud of my recent accomplishment.. getting him to eat, and LIKE broccoli!

haha, if you know Jason, you know that's a "big deal"...

We just shared our 2nd "cutting down the Christmas Tree" experience together,

and then of course, getting the crooked thing to stand up straight.

(which only took cutting a ton of the branches and about 60 minutes of frustrating moments full of colorful language).

There has been recent difficult changes, and events in both his side of the family and mine, but everyone continues to be healthy and okay, so all I can do is pray that those things all work themselves out.

It's officially 1:15 am and past my bedtime...

Good Night, all! :)