Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Warm Attitude Adjustment.

Sometimes, you just want to blabber about random things, at 12:39 a.m.
Instead of boring the hell out of someone, I'm just going to do it on here.

One. Manners. People often forget them, and they are important. Say; please, thank you, 'I would appreciate it if'.. excuse me, good job... hold a door open for a stranger, let pedestrian's cross the street when it's raining or freezing out. Being POLITE; it really DOES go a long way..

Two. A threat; a statement in which you tell someone that you will punish or harm them, especially if they do not do what you want. Which = people being bitter; To be perpetually pissed off... Expression of being in a bad mood over a relatively minor incident, often resulting after a series threats over the course of a certain period of time.

Three. If you have ever had a job, at some point or another, you'll clearly understand number two.

Four. Are threats effective? No. Please refer back to number one, and see how much farther that will get you.

Five. Courtesy. Also a good one. This is a simple action or gesture, that goes a long way. A nice way to express.. 'I was thinking about you' .... 'you're appreciated'....

Six. Here's a big one- Try to put yourself in someone else's shoes. AND REALLY UNDERSTAND THEM. If you take the time to do that, you'll probably make much more 'courteous' and educated decisions.

Seven. A smile is a great way to open up any type of interaction

Eight. Be understanding and patient. One thing that seems to be thrown out of the window first when we get in a rush is our understanding and patience. If we just slowed ourselves down for a moment, and took the time to be understanding of the people that we are interacting with, we would automatically win. If you are being patient and understanding you are not going to put the other person on the defense, and they will be more open to helping you with what ever problem that you may have.

Nine. When someone does something good, or over the top, be courteous and acknowledge that! Please see number one.

Ten. Be the bigger person.

Eleven. Anger can get the best of us, and we're all human. Sometimes, you might fail. It's okay, try again next time.

Twelve. "I'm sorry"... means everything, when you mean it.

:)

Think about it...

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